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His Secret Obsession by James Bauer is a powerful relationship guide that is available in downloadable PDF or audiobook versions.

The book tackles the issues that affect women around the world, including:

  • Why men can lose interest in a woman after the initial attraction wears off
  • Why men men are reluctant to commit long term, even when the early signs of relationship seem so promising
  • Why men can pull away suddenly and stop communicating with their partners.

The central assertion of His Secret Obsession is that men are driven by instinctive needs, even if they are not consciously aware of them.

James Bauer calls this ‘The Hero Instinct’. And he claims that it’s up to women to bring this to the fore. In fact, he says a man will be drawn to any woman who makes him feel it.

According to ‘The Hero Instinct’, men are driven by these three things:

  • To live a meaningful live and feel appreciated for his efforts
  • To provide for those he cares about in life, including his family, friends and especially his romantic partner
  • To be respected by his peers.

In short, men want to be a hero. And more importantly, they want to be your hero.

His Secret Obsession is the most comprehensive and insightful dating book I’ve read.

It contains the wisdom of a relationship expert with 12 years in the industry, as well as tips and strategies based on concrete human psychology. The hero instinct is a fascinating new take on what drives men romantically.